Puppy Love’s Lament

Ramon’s Insight

Our journey towards fulfilment takes us through cycle growth patterns. The puppy love cycle is an essential ingredient to balancing our soul’s need to strengthen the child within’s entrance to the world of adult life and personal responsibility.

Puppy love is magical and enchanting.

There is no soul substance to it; the word love is an easily spoken word, no thought is given to the complexity of love and its dark side – jealousy, possessive consuming of one’s partner.

Insecurity, anxiety, blindness to anyone’s truth. Only the lover knows what is good for each other, insulated in a bubble gum chewing and chewing over one another till finally all the sweetness is gone, and you are left with dry lips and stale gums.

This puppy love cycle leads to many suicides, both physical and mental.
Fortunately, most survive this cycle stronger and determined to upgrade their understanding of self and the mature, aware mind is awakened.
Sexuality is understood as the reward of love, not the master.

The true master is your own destiny, your own persona power and the need to celebrate your own incredible being, then the full power of love is revealed. Your being does not rely on sexual stimulation as the measure of true love.

The journey becomes a crystal clarity; your soul, body and mind channels your energy to the highest enlightenment and fulfilment – through every action, love flows.

Just being alive is love in action. The ocean, the stars are your love songs. Then the sexual aspect and expression of love is a beautiful, musical oneness without dominance, control and fear. Calm and easy to flow with, as it is the reward of love, not the big master.

So puppy love is cute and sweet, yet puppies need a lot of attention while they are vulnerable and needy.

Surely when maturity arrives, every lover is empowered, two strong hearts united in the power of love’s deep mystery and paradox.

Yes, you are one but inside of your soul is sacred individuality which you never surrender – even to love’s mighty power.

Let puppy love go; old ones grow up.

You need to become soul mature and free, not in a sweet chocolate box called puppy love.